Happy, Happy Birthday to Blake!!

Today is my husband’s birthday!

Fifty-four years young!

Just as handsome as every – I LOVE his salt and pepper hair SO much!

We celebrated Blake on Sunday evening – and it was the sweetest celebration!

We had our favorites join us – which is a typical Sunday evening thing anyway!

The children were so thoughtful about planning and preparing a delicious meal and dessert, hanging decorations, and choosing gifts for Blake that he would enjoy!

We all agree that the BEST birthday of each year is when you celebrate someone else’s!!

Our grand babies and our littles enjoyed helping in the gift opening!

Eliza had asked me earlier in the week if she could make a card for her Daddy.

I said “Of course!”

Then she came back a bit later and asked where she should hide it!

I told her a drawer to put it in, but I never looked at it.

SHE IS JUST THE SWEETEST THING EVER!!

Our girl who LOVES words! And paper! And pencils and pens!

Aren’t these words just precious:

“Dear Dad I love you in all the ways. I love when you kiss me goodnight. I can’t believe you are 54. I love when you stay home on Saturdays and Sundays. You are the best Dad on the earth! Love Eliza!”

After gifts, and then dinner, we sang Happy Birthday to our leader with a few candles in brownies and ice cream with caramel and strawberry sauce!

I thought I would save the BEST photo for last.

Seven precious children…

One amazing son-in-law…

And four of the most darling and adorable grand babies ever…

Piled on and around a chair with the man I love.

I’m sure you can plainly see that Blake nor I ever feel like our birthdays need celebrated or gifts need given – because just look at the gifts we already have!

It was a JOY to celebrate my husband!!

We are SO glad that he was born!!!

We are so thankful for a husband, father, and GPa who lives the way he does!

For Jesus!

Thank you, sweetheart, for being who you are!

Bless you for ALL you do!

I am grateful the Lord burdens you to value marriage and family ABOVE all things!!

HAPPY, happy birthday!!

WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!

Team Tate and a Nine Month Check-Up

Team Tate was on the road again yesterday for an appointment with Tate’s pediatric orthopedic surgeon!

We left bright and early yesterday morning.

We brought Tate’s side kick with us, because they are better together!!

They are joyful risers and cheerful travelers!

We took some DVD’s to make the long drive not seem so long.

First up was x-rays!

I think Tate had four different views total.

It’s been nine months since any imaging had been taken of our fearfully and wonderfully made cherub – the longest stretch we have had yet!

After x-rays were done, then we waited to be called to see the doctor.

I never realize how much this particular check-up affects me until it is over.

You probably already know how far above anything we’ve asked or thought the Lord has gone for our Tate Owen – and oh my, He has!

There is still some weight to these appointments – even try as I might to give it to the Lord to carry.

Tate has grown!

He grew about a half an inch over the last three months.

When we were told that, Tate said, “I thought I had growed when I was in the shower! The water is closer to my head!”

Funny boy.

Tate has officially made it on the American growth chart!

He is one percent for his height and three percent for his weight!

Tiny but mighty!

The surgeon took a long, long time to measure those new images that were taken yesterday.

It made Tate’s Mama and Daddy a bit nervous.

There is a chance of a degree of error in those measurements, so the doctor is taking that into consideration in the five degrees more that Tate’s curve measure yesterday.

(That half an inch that Tate grew is making his curve worse.)

After the surgeon told us that, he told us our favorite word – S T A B L E.

PRAISE THE LORD!!!

The surgeon would like to see Tate back in six months for new images and a re-check!

We were hoping for a year this time, but we will take “stable and see you in six months” for sure!

This means, unless something unexpected comes up, our next trip to Madison for a doctor’s appointment is in July!

It is getting easier and easier!

Rejoice with us for Tate’s health!

Rejoice with us for Eliza’s health too while you are at it!

Our two cherubs are SO PRECIOUS and it is THE BEST THING EVER to see them thriving!!!

Thank you, Jesus, for Tate and Eliza!!

November Memories

Many years ago now I was diligent in making scrapbooks of our family memories.

Remember when we used to have our photos developed?

On shelves in our office/school room closet we have several dozen Creative Memories scrapbooks that hold photos and memories from my childhood all the way to 2013!

I still really enjoy looking at photos and reliving our family memories that way!

Times are changing when it comes to technology – faster than this Mama can keep up with – but I do kinda feel like I am still scrapbooking our family memories when I gather them here on this little blog of ours.

Just look at this first photo!

Wouldn’t you want it preserved too?!

This photo is a treasure to me!!

All those precious children on that couch!!

Grant’s road crew job ended right around Thanksgiving and so he shows up at Twin Oaks more often than just dinner time now!

Do you remember way back at the beginning of November when we had some illness here?

Eliza was really sick and she scared us to pieces – one day in particular.

We ended up at the neighborhood clinic on day six of her having a high fever and got some help for how tight her chest was.

We spent over a week and a half watching Eliza sleep and sleep and sleep!

Then she would perk up for a little while, and then sleep some more.

Sweet baby!

I sat next to her, held her, and had her sleep by Blake and I for many days.

These photos are a memory for sure.

We were so relieved and thankful when Eliza got better!

Her illness made me diligent in all the extras to try to keep everyone else healthy.

We moved our three hens and their coop into our garage for the winter months, and they are doing very well there!

We do have a light on them and also a heating element in part of their coop.

Tate is still the one who loves to collect each days eggs, but Lane takes care of watering, feeding and cleaning up after the hens.

Grant lasted one whole week off of work before he had found a new temporary job for the month of December!

Before that one week was up though I had so many things checked off my to do list here at Twin Oaks.

That guy cannot sit still!

I have no idea where he got that from, ha, ha.

He and Lane even ran some spot lights up into our trees so we can sled and play on the land after it gets dark!

After thirty years of marriage and twenty-six years of parenting, photos of every day life still really look the same as they always have.

Lots of laundry, chores, food prep, training up the younger ones, and just managing all the crazy around here!

I’m thankful that once in a while schedules change in a way that I get to have some precious one-on-one time with a child.

Even if they are helping me run all the errands on a Friday morning!

Friday mornings are NOT for the faint of heart!

I enjoyed having Addie’s help and that coffee we decided we deserved!

I had these two grocery helpers on Thanksgiving weekend.

They make everything more fun!

Speaking of Thanksgiving weekend – Addie sent me these photos of my kitchen crew as we got all the food ready!

This first photo is one of my favorites!

Blake and I are still sneaking away on date night on Friday nights when we can.

I honestly am very “off” in my mood if I do not get time with my husband!

Just ask him!!

We are each other’s best friends and making time together is a huge priority!

Here’s a GREAT November memory – the guys got not ONE, but THREE deer!!!

Which filled our freezer with 100 pounds of ground meat!

Thankful!

November gave us a bit of snow.

Not very much really, and we are ready for some more!

It is actually snowing as I am typing this!

After one snow storm Chad went out to clear the driveway.

He can clear about half of it before his left hand hurts too much and he has to take a break and finish it later.

BUT – that is progress!!

Tate told me he was going out to help Chad….hmmmmm…I think the photo tells all!

Winter months turn me into a deep cleaning crazy lady.

Isn’t that what the holidays are for??

I’m getting old, you all, because our little nest tends to get too far gone before I realize it needs a good scrubbing!

I tackled the basement one afternoon with all my tribe of helpers and just had to take this photo!

Sparkling clean!!

AND…no nerf bullets anywhere! WHAT?

No legos to step on! EXCUSE ME?

AND you can see out of those windows!

Does anyone else of my elderly age still clean their windows?

I am being more diligent (since that deep cleaning day) in holding all the people who live downstairs accountable for all the things.

Let’s hope I can keep that up!!

Just look how much these two enjoyed a clean space!

While we are looking at photos of the downstairs, there is also this photo I took the day we helped Addie Mae make her bed when all of her new bedding arrived.

Her old quilt had a huge hole in it!

I love the colors she chose!

Isn’t it pretty?

November still brought my daily time in God’s Word in the wee hours of the morning – which is the only time Twin Oaks is quiet!

It also still brought us all together to sing every morning, but we changed from hymns to Christmas carols!

Of course the winter months mean that we play more games!

And read more books!

Every single one of us enjoys playing games and reading.

A post here in my little scrapbook would not be complete without at least one photo of the sky.

It is just SO beautiful!!!

November was a great month.

Full, as usual!!

I read a quote from Bob Goff the other day that I loved:

“It’s easy to confuse a lot of activity with a purposeful life. Do what lasts; let the rest fall away.”

Isn’t that GOOD?

Life here at Twin Oaks is busy, yes – a lot of activity.

But what I see when I look back at these photos is us ALL doing life TOGETHER.

Which is the vision Blake and I had for our family before we even had a family!

How awesome is that?!

The Lord has truly answered our prayers and fulfilled the desires of our hearts!!

Thank you, Heavenly Father, for trusting us with SO much!

A Very Merry Christmas

Did you all have a wonderful Christmas??!

We sure did!!

The whole month of December was extremely busy, but even so the Lord was burdening me to quiet myself before Him in preparation of the celebration of His Son’s birthday!

What a privilege to be pursued by our Heavenly Father!

My favorite, favorite, favorite Christmas time “tradition” is our Christmas Eve candlelight service at our church.

Our church family likes to SING!

And it fills my heart SO full to be a part of it!

Our children like to sing too!

Which fills my heart even fuller!


After church we enjoyed a yummy meal together!


Christmas day brought our favorite people to Twin Oaks for a brunch, a gift exchange, and to spend the entire day together.

It was fantastic!

I am sure you know that the food was in abundance and really yummy!


Thank you Addie Mae for these cinnamon rolls!

They are tradition too!!


Our seven children and David drew names for a gift exchange this year!

It was really fun for them!

Each one gave such thoughtful, useful gifts!!


Kay and her crew also had gifts to open from my Mom!


Our afternoon was filled with games, snacks, naps, more snacks, more games, and lots of good conversations!!


It was the most beautiful and warm day!

Any day that starts and ends with a sky like this has to be the best day yet.


Kay and her crew headed back to Briar’s place when it was time for bed!

Bright and early Christmas morning I sat in the lights of the Christmas tree and read the story of Jesus’s birth in Luke 2.

I could not keep the smile off my lips as I read, just thinking of God planning for THIS to be the way for us to live forever!

Forever with Him!

By just saying “I believe in You, God, and Your Son and what You did for me!”

Heavenly Father, it just takes my breath away!

Thank you for giving us Your Son!

Thank you for giving us a way to be with You in Heaven!

Thank you for giving us Christmas so we can reflect, remember and celebrate what You have done for us!